You can never control people, but you can control yourself.
Instead of expecting them to be what you want them to be, it will be a lot easier if you'll just let them what they are.
As what Gahndi said, "the changes I want to see begins in me", if you want them to be true, start it by being true to them, dont talk on their backs, dont think bad about them.
walang assurance na magiging totoo na sila pag nagawa mo yan, pero atleast, hindi ka kabilang sa FAKE na tinutukoy mo.
God bless you ,